Bruce,
I got all excited. I thought you hit the nail on the head. I took it apart and everything seems to be there.
Starting from the inside, I have the Spacer, bearing, small O ring, large rubber O ring, washer, then the larger spacer. I put the drum on and tighten the nut up with an impact (about 120 ft pounds) I would normally tighten it more but I dont have the engine in nor emergency brake to help stop the wheel from spinning. Any other ideas?