I think you've said enough Stephan, You might want to take the hint, or in this case the blunt reality that you are being a complete pain in the ass and you are pissing multiple people off. Enough of your pathetic sarcasim, enough of your j/k after you say something stupid and enough of this all of your other crap. Carry on and you'll just alienate yourself more from the community and pretty soon you'll be hanging with the Honda's.
sorry james, I'm a VW person. I did have a honda for a winter beater though.
I don't understand:
matt: we've met before, I sold you parts at a great loss, and you aren't a bad person...ever heard of forgive and forget? if you are too big headed and stubborn to ever do that, then you need to learn this.
James: I bought a traction bar off of you. thanks a lot for it, but now I have no use for it as I got one free from a friend and I might be using that one. I have no problem with you.
I just don't understand you people. are you too afraid to admit that you are sorry for carrying on an un necessary anger in your head? honestly. I am a sarcastic person...but I can take it when people are like that to me...or are joking

I'm not asking you guys to like me. but I don't care. I'll be showing up to the VW events, going to the meets and I'll continue to be a part of the VW community. a few guys who have problems with themselves and the fact that I'm a VW guy won't stop me from driving the peoples car. I'm not afraid to meet any of you guys to buy or sell something or at a show. because this is all stupid...so I'll forget it. I'm not going to be an ass about it.
thanks, stephan