Measure the distance from the ledge where the pressure plate bolts onto, down to the disc surface. Almost always, this distance is larger than the spec of 21.0mm. The reason is, when a clutch shop resurfaces it, they touch down on the disc surface and zero their machine. Then they grind it until the whole surface is cleaned up. At that point, they read off how deep they ground it. Then they go up to the ledge for the pressure plate and grind off the same amount. The problem with this is that the disc surface gets worn down, and they are preserving this error for the flywheel's next life.
Then there's the really bad clutch shops that just reface the disc surface and not the ledge.
You can indeed resurface your pressure plate. In fact, once resurfaced, your pressure plate is BETTER than new. The iron shoe becomes dimensionally more stable after it's been heat cycled.